Drama is expensive. The best divorces are boring.

Every week, one memo and one small hack. By January your divorce file is built and you are not panicking.

What lands in your inbox

📩 One memo every week. Short (ish), informative, useful. Very useful.

✅ One small job (boring hack) per memo. Find the document you've been avoiding. Ask yourself one question before you hit send.

📁 Seven folders. Me, Money, Home, Children, Communication, Legal, Future. We fill them one at a time, so nothing lands on you all at once.

🕐 Joining late? You haven't missed the point. Start now and you'll received the Boring Memo Archive.

Who writes the memos

I'm Iman. I practised family law for 19 years in Singapore and in England & Wales. Now I coach and mediate divorces.

Most of the expensive messes I saw started as panic: texts sent at 11pm, documents nobody could find, decisions made angry. This project is the opposite of that.

By January, you'll be glad you started now.

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Be Boring,

Iman

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