Before you do anything.

A free readiness diagnostic for anyone navigating separation or divorce - so you know exactly where you stand before you make a single move.

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You know what needs to happen. You just don't know what to do first.

I've spent 19 years watching people get this wrong. The diagnostic shows you where to start.

What the diagnostic covers

Whether you have the anchors in place to think clearly before anything starts moving

Whether you actually know what you are working with - financially, legally and on paper

Whether your communication is currently working for you or against you

Whether you know your current negotiation position or will you be figuring it out under pressure

Send me the diagnostic

Hi, I'm Iman.

I spent 19 years as a family lawyer in Singapore and England before leaving practice to build the Divorce Atelier — a strategic coaching and mediation practice for people who want to navigate divorce from a position of clarity and readiness, not reaction.

The diagnostic came out of what I kept seeing: capable people who were unprepared and didn't know where to start.

What clients say about the diagnostic:


"This showed me where the gaps were...

and they weren't where I expected."

"I stopped panicking...

and started making a list"

"I'd already spoken to a lawyer...

this told me what I should have figured out before that conversation."

Inside the diagnostic

Everything you need to know before the process begins

  • The four areas where preparation gaps cost people the most
  • An honest read of where you are right now, not where you think you are
  • A starting point for what to do next, based on your answers

When you sign up, you'll receive the diagnostic by email. What follows is shaped by where you are in the process - so what lands in your inbox will be relevant to you, not generic.